Sink or Swim

I was going to make something really long and boring today until I’ve decided to make this a little bit more interesting.

This article is going to sound like what most men would sound like and that is being straight to the point. So here I am with some facts.

Did you know that a swelling 40 percent of men aren’t interested in sex the way men normally would be? It is a fact, and is a growing number. It should be alarming not because there is a sudden change in behaviour in most men, but it is because of the stress acquired by their respective jobs these days that are doing this. These are men aged 35 and above, men who have wives who won’t even cheat. So go figure.

Guys aren’t all about sex. As we can see from the fact above, there’s more to guys than just sex and sports. We are interested in other things, too. But we have a very diverse way of delivering things and choosing options. Think of the word: simplicity. We like it plain and very, very simple.

Not all skinny women appeal to us. That is the most forlorn myth in the field of attraction for us men. We find smart women sexier than bombshells that can’t make decisions by themselves. For one, it’s again, not all about sex. Because you’ll still be hanging with that girl for a little while longer than that so you have to appreciate more than just her face but what will make her still attractive once she puts on a few pounds.

We are not complicated; we are just built differently. Once you figure out the difference between both, you just might want to try harder to understand how simple we are. Yes, we are dumb sometimes, but its only because we’re not playing smart enough to guess what goes on your minds. Even if we like you more than our other girlfriends from the past, you trying to play too many mind games on us will eventually tire us out and turn us off.

Independent women rock our socks, but don’t overdo it. Because we like women who can take care of themselves. But at the same time, someone who’s willing to submit by a tad bit. You know — if we get you something because it’s your birthday, don’t tell us that you can get your own? That is a major turn-off and it somehow shows us that you don’t want to depend on us – which makes us feel bad about ourselves. Remember our ego is our best friend. You make ego angry, you make the male shop for the other 10 percent in someone else.

We HAVE the capacity to love. This is the tricky part though. Love comes with respect– by that I mean someone who doesn’t deal with double-standards and someone who knows how to trust her man. A lady will get the respect and love she deserves when this becomes evident in a relationship. Sometimes it’s all about risks; you really can’t just pigeonhole us for being insensitive jerks that only want to get in your pants. You just might be surprised how we SIMPLY just want to be in your lives.

So I was browsing on some stuff online and I found out that a big percentage of males aged from 30-50 are for a fact, not as sexually active as some may think. Yes, folks – long gone are the days when people accepted the fact that men think about sex every three seconds – if it is a fact at all.

As it turns out, not all men are after sex, after all and this is a result of a growing dilemma amongst men in that age range. Depression is also a said factor to this as a high percentage of men who are depressed and are counted in based on the studies, to just completely lose interest in sex. Most of these men are married by the way and aren’t even thinking of cheating.

40 percent of these men who seek the help of marriage counselors and professionals are still capable of making love but just don’t want to. While this may be an alarming fact, there being working for long hours coupled up with stress, can be fixed. How long it may take to solve remains